lost butterfly

when you know you are flowing in the direction of the wind,just without thinking where it might destined and hoping for the best that is how this life tends to be...nowhere but somewhere...so here a lost butterfly.

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Nation has been in the lock down for quite sometime now and no doubt the electronic gadgets like mobile phones,tablets,laptops and television has been used more than usual and extra because of work from home and of course entertainment (as the time now is superfluous) like gaming,movies etc etc.
The increase in screen time is inevitable due to almost everything you need is available very easily in them(hail to the internet). 
The reports of eye patients with complaints of eye problems like irritation,swelling,redness and blurry vision has increased during lock down. Due to this the number of patients is increasing in hospital so it's necessary for us to take care of them not only to help the doctors and other patients but also for ourselves for protecting our eyes from any harm not only during lock down but in any other regular day.

So here what we can do for our eyes,




  • while playing games or watching something of large amount of time like movies or series, keep in mind to blink your eyes for 15-20 times per minute it prevents the cornea from drying due which sensation of an itch is felt.

  • Apply 20-20 rule
          In this in every 20 minutes while on tv or laptop look at a thing at long distance from your eye .


  • Do a fast walk in balconies or on terrace or in porch and also do eyes exercise daily with routine.

  • Do give gentle dabs with soft wet cloth on your eyes once in a day for 15 minutes. this will help in hydrating your eyes. (never splash your eyes with water)

  • Instead of watching news or reading it, do listen to it with eyes closed giving time for your eyes to rest .

  • At last    with the suggestion of eye doctor keep eye drops in handy or use rose water as eye drops or even though problem occurs than doctors are always there for us :)





Stay safe and do take good care of your precious eyes which might have already facing problems after seeing the today's world situation!!

Here is the first part of my series which i would like to start regardless of how much it affects people but it's worth mentioning!





long ago i read this book call black beauty. That book was a story of horse named black beauty! what makes this book unique  is that it is narrated by a horse point of view itself. sounds weird no? but Anna Sewell has done an impeccable job.

Also what this book tells  you that how the struggle of animals is almost as that of humans. just the difference is that us humans have limitations to tolerance and we can burst it out anytime but what an animal could do is to endure the the pain of not able to make us human understand them and even if they burst it out,a man would not tolerate such rage right?

so there were some things that clinged on to black beauty without his will. firstly i thought the struggle mentioned is exaggerated or maybe just a core imagined stuff for story. but when i did research about it, i was disappointed by the fact that it was TRUE!

So here are some things that you could have witnessed if you were a Horse!



  • THE REINS



so here the man is holding the rein. they use it  by giving a pressure to the neck of horse called a rein aid that directs the horse.
" due to these reins tension that constrained the position of head and throat causes foam in their mouth. sometimes uncomfortable breathing"  that what black beauty said.



  • THE BLINKERS




















so black beauty call it a stupid fashion! as they are used to prevent horses seeing to the rear and side and getting so frightened to cause accidents. 
why to make someone partly blind? if they weren't suppose to see their rear side to prevent accidents nature in the first place would never have given them sight like this.
and moreover they are used by man on them for selfish reasons like the race competitions to make them not distracted by crowd. how would you feel if someone makes you partially blind against your own will?






  • CHECKREIN













i don't know about now, but in those early royal times, the checkreins were shortened to raise their horse heads up! simply for fashion and show off reasons!😓 and then they were also supposed to take the heavy carriage to long distances with their heads up all the time restricting them to move their OWN heads!


  • THE WHIP












and how can we forget the horse whipping? they say horse have a resilient skin. whipping doesn't affect them. then why do we whip them in first place? again for some selfish reasons that can give them sensation of the memory of their training which said to move faster for their master! (slow claps) they are in the race they never asked for!



  • MANY MORE

these so called accessories are not limited upto these only. there are many such things like breastplates,noseband, headgears which acts as a ground to those accessories and may not be worse than them but definitely unwanted by those poor lives!

Horses represent noble values, pride, strength, power, freedom, endurance and elegance.
they have been admired and used since very old times. 
it's not we people are not aware of the fact that our pleasure comes with a cost of their freedom and neglected Honour.
i myself have been on the horse and used them for my selfish purpose to protect my legs from muddy swamp and rocks and letting them suffer. so preaching is easier than practice goes for me here but now as i put myself in similar situation like them i would have lost it at first place and so do you! 
these animals are used at many tourist areas and games and sports and i don't know how necessary is that for us to use them there and torture them.



ps; the first painting is made by me and rest pictures are taken from the internet.




















this post will be a bit long because the way to justice also took very much long.
story of violence on women has been heard and discussed since the origin of mankind i guess. so this post is not another story of crime against a lady. it's much more terrible than that.
Nirbhaya was said to be the" rarest of rare cases" of crime,but that became a misunderstanding right after when there were another  terrible rapes and murder  without any break.
Nirbhaya case happened in Delhi , India which reveals not only the condition of a women here,but also  what the condition of legislation is here and the mind set of  people.
a tragedy of humanity,sanity,security, and all existing good terms for thoughtfulness, rather makes me puke and wonder that how come such evil act still is not able scare some people and rather giving them the GUTS! to say something like this....↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓↓

" the victims were responsible for the assault because they should not have been using public transportation and, as an unmarried couple, they should not have been on the streets at night.   "Until today I have not seen a single incident or example of rape with a respected lady. Even an underworld don would not like to touch a girl with respect. the male victim "wholly responsible" for the incident because he "failed in his duty to protect the woman".                                                                       
these were the words of someone call Manohar lal sharma(name as per wiki), who were one of the convicts lawyer.
Now this is the condition of legislation earlier mentioned. those culprits even got THE LAWYERS to DEFEND THEM. well i don't know much about civics, its rather crucial to keep judiciary and law pragmatic and keeping everyone equal under it's eyes. no emotional decision is allowed etc etc. but these terms was the first step in ending the JUSTICE! for someone who didn't deserve to die like that at all.(if you don't know about this case well please google for holy sake) and also the mentality of maybe a 30-40-50 or over years old man (educated man because he is a "lawyer") and maybe these things were just an incarnation of greed of money over respecting and manifestation of dignity of not a women but human! the saddest part is that till the end there was someone who didn't deny to defend those low lives and guiding them to how to delay their deaths. the brutality which they did was never delayed! injustice the second time.

Now comes the JJB(juvenile justice board). one of the convicts was 17 year old and 6 months at the time he raped someone. how come the brain grows and morality high jumps from raping someone "mistakenly" to know it's a sin in six months. that was something absurd but hey! that is PRACTICAL sorry as per 18 is 18 and not 17 and 6 months. also he deserves to learn some skills and start a new life because now he has become a better human and not at all a threat to some girl or maybe a boy who knows! people now knows sex first at the age of 13 and long after about sci,commerce and arts. so i would suggest you all to beware he is out there roaming free.

now comes DEATH PENALTY,  which was tried to make as a joke by those rapists and their lawyer by applying MERCY PETITION! that too to the president. this shows the hypocrisy of man kind. we love our life,we are scared of death, we would not be even ashamed to beg for forgiveness for a heinous act which was the same in feelings and fear as they have now. except for the fact those rapists deserves it. 
 the Death penalty was delayed three times! because of some absurd laws.their lawyer AP Singh said that he would not let the hanging happen ever. he even says that if speak about the victim,her mother is also a culprit's mother as she didn't knew where her daughter was till midnight. (i mean people like him is out there, so happy enduring the world,the life) But we can understand his outrage,after all he lost at the end by god's grace.

the rapists were hanged on March 20,2020 at 5:30 am.

It's definitely not criticizing the law still after serving the justice and taking the right decision, it's an outrage of serving the justice after giving the rapists a chance to breath for 7 years who didn't deserve it for 7 seconds!  the Girl's family has to suffer like it was them  who is at the guilt. and it's not only this case,our judiciary is not meant in a way as it could serve the real justice, which can scare the hell out of a soul like  how a lion's image is ,which is on our emblem too, because justice delayed is INJUSTICE and this legislation on this sensitive issues like rape and murder (either of a common women or a man) has failed to do so.
 If the plethora of cases due this country's population is the excuse, then the need of fast track courts and sensible lawyers in making shouldn't bethe key highlight of this country?

but the most important how come the selfishness and inhumanity has become the theory of co-existence?







In this section if you think i am going to review this novel,then it's a no! because everyone knows what a classic it is 🙌. 
WARNING:  But still those who haven't read it, it might be a spoiler!

so i read it like months ago, and i couldn't came out of the trauma of witnessing something that should be a fiction with something unrealistic (where there were somethings i'll mention later) but no, what it all proved is that what this life actually is!! 
Jay Gatsby is the protagonist who has been shown as really really RICH! (which he becomes by luck)
He does party all the time at his villa. wherever he lives everyone KNOWS him there and almost every other rich brat is a member of his celebration(for nothing as i remember). 
but he has a dream. a dream of spending his life with his true love who is lady named Daisy. he has met her way before when he meets her again through his neighbor Nick Carraway, who is by the way the narrator of the story.

                                                               so,Jay has everything, except for the love.he is obsessed with Daisy. he always threw the lavish parties in the hope that someday she might come in the party. he also almost had her in the story but you know how it ended?? or i should say how Jay ended?? despite of being rich and popular who use to party everyday.....
he ended up so lonely,not even a single person from hundreds of people who used to come and enjoy his unnecessary parties  came to his funeral. not even Daisy, not even wolfsheim whom jay used to consider as very close friend. but Nick who became fond of him gradually was there trying to convince people to come to the funeral.💔

 why i was in the trauma is that how accurate that was! i don't know the purpose to write this novel but what i saw was something really moralistic that is true and that is ,it doesn't matter how many people he knew, how rich he was, how popular he was , he doesn't love himself. all he wanted to recreate the past. 
There are many views on what Fitzgerald wanted to convey, However, all i saw, like Gatsby,how we all dream of having the person by side whole life who might have changed with the change in time and ignore the people who might really have cared for us like  that person who did before or may not even try to see what we actually deserves!! holding on the past,always ruin lives despite of being who you are!!!!! I really felt bad how Gatsby  ended like this. have you read it?

XXXXX



                                               this picture is taken from internet.




It's the time of march 2020. Yes, the year that must have been Imagined and discussed with the nursery children of 80's and 90's about what they imagine it to be and how they see themselves during this date. Innocent mind must have imagine almost everything correctly of technological developement,fashion sense, politics (all what i thought of atleast when i was growing up). But, they never have imagined the other side of nature and humans too. Because come on, optimism is basic education 👀. (which we were taught only in english literature) but anyway, like the 2020 started with idea of wars, bush fires, terror attacks, and the plague.😷. You know till  dec 2019, the only corona i knew was the beer! As they say, alcohol is injurious to health, lol,here comes the real quick deal with the same name as a beer. World health organisation has officially announced covid-19 as pandemic and this global situation has made us quarantine (which is the name of lifestyle i usually had)  so, jokes apart, it's such a topic that i don't need to preach you all about this virus and precautions, you can google it.

What caught my eye is, even though the economy 💰 (reason behind every war and struggle) is falling due to this, what we weren't able to do even being aware of our earth's enviromental crisis, this plague is making us do.

 Like no crowds, sanitary, people at home not able to waste resources, electricity saved! Gas and oil saved! Less noise!  People eating more home food! More family time! 👪 more self care!  and the best of all exams POSTPONED! (just "postponed" )
 All these things may not be visible.(as you are sitting at home) but this is not a theory this is pragmatic. its like a push to us. 😞 because at the end nature has its own way in dealing with the things right?
Let me come to this straight, it may sound offending but maybe this time we the humans are the virus and this corona is vaccination.okay you must have already heard this somehow but as joke!!!this sounds stupid but it may be the THEORY. how far we have come,almost at the verge of destruction. something has to take a charge. i am not saying this corona is something good that is happening, all i am saying it may not have been happened if we humans were behaving as most productive species and not destructive.and i know its not a first time a plague has taken place it has happened many times in history of mankind, every time has a different struggle!
whatever the reason behind this spread of virus,every reason has only one thing in common which is us.
so,i would say enjoy cleaning the earth phase rather fearing about it.
wishing for everyone's safety! take precautions...Be Aware!

XX XX
i am standing in front of a window of amber fort.






History is somehow a really boring topic for majority of people especially now (fast lifestyle you know)
So that's
 why i chose to talk about a bit ^.^ 
so it's not like suddenly but yes it happens with me so when you see this post tell me is it just me (and my aunt) or also you, that whenever i am touching and staring constantly at very old "wall" ,not our childhood home wall but actually the hundreds of years old wall(or a window,door,roof etc) of those times when wars, royalty, hundreds of wives , no internet, no mobiles was a real deal, makes me wonder that why do i feel nostalgic like, when i imagine the people who made that wall, passed by it, designed it,owned it ,would look like what and had they been thinking if this place right where they stand would become something on which people might write a blog on. that's sound crazy in my head for what i and why i feel so emotional about it. if those people would still be here or even watching us from somewhere (fable like),would they have been proud of it or scared about it that one day their mark might not be here! that's scary to me too.
 so that's it. those who relates, XX HUGS!!

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